I am all for the "no one would succeed with Snyder" in almost all cases.
Jay Gruden isn't one.
I don't share VoR's strong feelings on Jay's playcalling because I did see WRs get open at times (also McVay went on record at some point about some things he learned from Jay that I believed). That said, I think you can do better than Jay, I don't think he should have a job. I think he rode his last name for quite a ways. I think the Ryans rode their last names WAY better though. Both Ryans and Jay are in the same heap in my opinion. Do they have 0 value? No. Are they the best coordinators available? Also no (in my opinion, from what I can glean).
However, something I feel just as strongly as VoR - Jay Gruden should never be discussed as a head coach. As a human being, I think maybe there should be some significant question marks, and with the mountain of sports media available to us, I don't know why he gets so much airtime either. There are a lot of weird, WEIRD,
WEIRD stories out there about what went on during his time as HC. There are too many to be ignored. Way, way too many, from way too many places.
Already mentioned Swearinger. Someone else mentioned Bibbs. Here is another about Bibbs that goes into maybe a big more detail.
Ex-Washington RB Kapri Bibbs spilled all the details on Jay Gruden's side chick possibly being responsible for Alex Smith's nasty leg injury.
sideaction.com
So, to recap: You are Jay Gruden. You are given one of the 32 coveted HC positions. You have the well-known last name of your brother. I get it, Snyder is poison, there is a lot of "bro" culture and really, it is kind of a cesspool made by the owner. However, I don't absolve Jay - in fact, I wonder how much Jay fed into that culture based on the stories I have read. Snyder is the root, but Jay's actions that are described by multiple sources seem like they fit right in. I feel like he took a golden opportunity and really badly blew it. I won't say he was purely hired with no rationale (he took the Bengals on an offensive trajectory) but to say the hire had nothing to do with his last name is naive with what we know about Snyder. From these many reports, he just doesn't seem like someone worth anyone's time or respect - just my opinion of course.