To me, this seems like the issue is more the team’s performance than the media’s view
Absolutely.
But to your point—and this is where I agree with Kevin Sheehan—the national media will pencil teams like the Bengals in for a bounce-back because Joe Burrow got hurt. Same with other teams that lost their QB. Yet Washington doesn’t get that same benefit of the doubt.
That is obviously reputation and years of being irrelevant stacked together. This franchise has been down for so long—and has lost so much of its national pull—that one bad season (even if it’s just a hiccup, hopefully) gets treated as “same old Washington.” Maybe they end up being right. We’ll see. But yeah, I appreciate the few people still in their corner like Mel Kiper Jr. and Kay Adams.
For me I think the buzz stuff effects me purely from the perspective of kids. Because I do think at least some of them feel it. When my son played football last year his defensive coordinator was a Tampa fan, but loved Jayden, and he'd bait my son about it and had fun with it. But as the season went on, lol, it became something he was ranked on about.
A close friend of mine is a Dolphins fan, but his son roots for the Patriots because he grew up during the Brady era. My brother-in-law is a Commanders fan—his son’s a Dolphins fan. You’ve got guys like Mansoor Delane growing up in Silver Spring and being Ravens fans. That’s not unusual. For years in the DMV, the most popular jersey has been Lamar Jackson. And like I’ve said before, Finaly said when you go to kids’ parties or see Halloween costumes in the DMV, it’s rarely Commanders gear—it’s other teams.
So yeah, I’ve put in the time. I’ve taken my kids to games, made it a thing, tried to build that connection—and so far, I’ve held my own against all the outside influences. But the one team I don’t want to be battling for buzz is the Giants, because that’s where the pressure comes from in my own house. My wife’s side is basically all Giants fans. On my side, it’s me, my brother-in-law, my sister—and kind of my kids. Everyone else? Dolphins, Cowboys, Eagles, Giants, Jets, Bucs.
So yeah… my football life is just more fun when this team has juice.
Like that 2025 offseason—walking around Disney with my kids, wearing a Jayden jersey, and getting stopped multiple times. That kind of energy sticks with them. That’s the kind of thing that pulls kids in and keeps them there.
I just want more of that again.