It's the leadership of Daniel Snyder.
I'll say that I find very little to complain about concerning Daniel Snyder over the years... He obviously made some bad decisions and entrusted the franchise to the wrong people at times, but he hasn't been "impatient" since Gibbs 2 era... He made a good call in getting rid of Cerrato & while there were some concerns about Bruce Allen in the beginning, that move has evolved into the hiring of Scot McCloughan (who credits Bruce Allen with being a big part of bringing him here).
I get that a lot of people hate Snyder, and I won't fault them for feeling this way. However, he has evolved into a decent middle-of-the-pack owner and I think we can look at about 10 owners around the league who are far worse right now...
Here is a quick list of owners I'd consider worse and the reasoning, but mostly the reasoning has to do with Snyder limiting his meddling and the hiring of McCloughan:
1) Cleveland Browns - Jimmy Haslam... I don't think I need to explain.
2) Philadelphia Eagles - Jeffrey Lurie... Gave full control of organization to a mad-man, then ditched him after one year of a multi-year extension.
3) 49ers - Jed York... Dismantled Personnel, then Coach, and team totally sucks now with no real hope.
4) Chargers - Alex Spanos... Is he moving the team or not?
5) Titans - A bunch of idiots... Clearly idiotic people in charge.
6) Rams - Stan Kroenke... How is Jeff Fisher still the coach?
7) Bucs - Glazer brothers... Divided interests in Manchester United, lack of success.
8) Miami - Stephen Ross... I should probably have him higher on the list.
9) Dallas - Jerry Jones... Pretty close to Snyder, but he is the epitome of a meddling owner. No GM to speak of here.
10) Detroit - Ford family... Just fired personnel and VP. Lived with Matt Millen as GM for ages.
11) NY Jets - Woody Johnson... Recently, he has been better. I'd say Snyder is about in this range.
Now, there are a few teams that I'd say need more time to really gauge the owners... Raiders, Bills, Jaguars, etc...
I think Snyder is clearly middle of the pack and improving. We just need to see McCloughan build longterm success, and we might have an owner that even the most critical of fans won't be embarrassed to talk about.