We lost my mom last Sunday. She requested to have food and water removed the week before. Took 7 days. She always was a tough one. About a month ago she lost the ability to walk with her walker. A week or so later she couldn't support her weight when helping her stand. She could still communicate typing on her ipad, but even that was getting difficult. She never wanted to be completely helpless. She was always one to worry about everyone around here, and she continued to do so up til the end. Her biggest fear was choking/asphyxiating. She wanted to go in her sleep. With the help of hospice and morphine, we were able to giver her that wish. She went quietly and peacefully with us by her side.