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This question is usually something a person can only answer themselves, and not needing the help of others, but I have been unable to do so, and just asking for guidance.
I'm over 40 years old and still have absolutely no idea what I want to do with my life. Here I am at an age, where most people have gotten a good start on their retirement (and my brother is actually retired in his mid-40's, thanks to 20 years working for the county) and I havnt even started on a career, much less a retirement. I have simply bounced from job to job all my life and nothing ever stuck.
I'm not asking anyone here to make a decision or even a suggestion on a specific career for me, but mainly a suggestion on how to "find myself" in a career. Too often, I've heard about guys (and ladies) just naturally "stumbling" on their career path naturally or almost by accident, either that or simply having a conviction about knowing that's the career for them, almost all their life.
But I have no such conviction. And I'm sure a lot of people would respond to my question with the reply, "Well what do you LIKE to do ?" When I think of what I would like to do, a LOT of things come to mind, mostly with "moderate" interest, but nothing really stands out to convince me that's the choice for me. So, I kind of get overwhelmed with possibilities when thinking of it.
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The other thing that keeps me from selecting one of the many things that "moderately" interest me, is concern over whether I can make a career out of it, and retire from that career, in a stable way. Either because it's not the nature of that job to become even semi-lucrative, or - this is my biggest concern - the job may become obsolete due to constantly advancing technology which reduces or eliminates the need for much "human labor".
So, while I'd love to do something as a career that I totally enjoy, I'd rather have a job that I don't enjoy so much but has a stable future, than a a job I really enjoy, that only lasts short-term til it becomes obsolete (and end up back where I started - bouncing around again, only at a later age). In other words, if at all possible, I'd like my next "career choice" to be my last, or at least long-long-term.
I feel like the only option is to take some kind of personality test, which determines what career is best for my "type". But are those accurate ? If so, can anyone recommend one, or any other suggestions, to get me closer to this decision, which is so time-sensitive at this point in my life ?
I'm over 40 years old and still have absolutely no idea what I want to do with my life. Here I am at an age, where most people have gotten a good start on their retirement (and my brother is actually retired in his mid-40's, thanks to 20 years working for the county) and I havnt even started on a career, much less a retirement. I have simply bounced from job to job all my life and nothing ever stuck.
I'm not asking anyone here to make a decision or even a suggestion on a specific career for me, but mainly a suggestion on how to "find myself" in a career. Too often, I've heard about guys (and ladies) just naturally "stumbling" on their career path naturally or almost by accident, either that or simply having a conviction about knowing that's the career for them, almost all their life.
But I have no such conviction. And I'm sure a lot of people would respond to my question with the reply, "Well what do you LIKE to do ?" When I think of what I would like to do, a LOT of things come to mind, mostly with "moderate" interest, but nothing really stands out to convince me that's the choice for me. So, I kind of get overwhelmed with possibilities when thinking of it.
.
The other thing that keeps me from selecting one of the many things that "moderately" interest me, is concern over whether I can make a career out of it, and retire from that career, in a stable way. Either because it's not the nature of that job to become even semi-lucrative, or - this is my biggest concern - the job may become obsolete due to constantly advancing technology which reduces or eliminates the need for much "human labor".
So, while I'd love to do something as a career that I totally enjoy, I'd rather have a job that I don't enjoy so much but has a stable future, than a a job I really enjoy, that only lasts short-term til it becomes obsolete (and end up back where I started - bouncing around again, only at a later age). In other words, if at all possible, I'd like my next "career choice" to be my last, or at least long-long-term.
I feel like the only option is to take some kind of personality test, which determines what career is best for my "type". But are those accurate ? If so, can anyone recommend one, or any other suggestions, to get me closer to this decision, which is so time-sensitive at this point in my life ?
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